Women

Hey everyone,
Its about midnight on a friday night and im sitting at home watching TV and trying to avoid watching 100 total hours of Super Bowl previews. I mean i love football but god i wish theyd play the game already. Anyway while sitting at home on my computer on a friday is usually not a good sign, im just resting up for the party (which will hopefully end in a win) that the rest of the weekend will be.
So while I had the time I thought id discuss something that i loved more than the Eagles just frustrated me just as much: women. This comes about from a lot of things, commericals for the movie Hitch (which doesnt seem like a guy movie I like Will Smith and i like Kevin James (the fat guy in the commericials dancing) and Im glad hes in a bigger movie and Im sure he'll be funny.) discussions through the week, and just being single makes you think about women.
Now im not saying that women are hard to read, play games, and hold all the power, its a given. Guys are the ones that have to make women come to them, i'd make a fishing reference, but it'd just turn into a joke about bait which i think can surmize most people dont want to hear. Thats basically what Hitch is based around, finding those techniques guys (apparently ANY guy) can use to get and keep women. I hope from what i saw in the previews that it shows that not all women can be lured by the same thing and that it takes more than certain tricks to get one (if only it were that easy.) Otherwise ill just be kicking myself for a few days for not finding out about this techniques earlier.
When it comes to women i like physically I like women witha pretty face. Now I can't get into enough detail such as cheek, lips, eyes, etc. when i see a pretty girl i just know it. Hey im not arrogant enought to say that nice cleavage or a nice ass doesnt make me turn my head and from there some times run into things. But the face is most important because without it even the best body is ruined, its a deal breaker, its like a sweet car with a cracked winshield. Its pretty damn hard to stay in a relationship where you can't look the girl in the face. Also, an in-shape person would be nice too. Personality wise I want someone who can create theyre own fun, can not take themselves too seriously, let me be me which means not groaning too loudly at my jokes, being able to just sit and talk about whatever, enjoying a quiet moment every once in a while, and at least being able to stand/understand/(or if im really lucky) like either football, baseball, or wrestling. I want someone dynamic where I know i wont fall into a rut if im with them, i just like amazing people, i know weird!
The reason i bring this up is that twice this week it was said that dating within the PT class is not the best of ideas or shouldnt be done. The funny thing is that now im in grad school basically there are a lot of women that fall meet my criterea and theyre are some pretty cool girls in my class. I can see why people say that especially if theres a bad breakup, and especially if it gets to become a distraction, we're in grad school and we're here to learn. But i dont see that much of a difference from going out with someone outside of the program, if you're having problems or you're too into a person it can be just as bad. While people might say that dating in the program is just out of convenience, who knows better the pressure and all the stuff you're dealing with then someone in the same situation? Plus, ive been around these people for basically 6 months straight so you're getting a good view at the true person warts and all. Its like eating a spicy meal, you know you love spicy foods, and spicy foods are the best, but if you're not careful it can backfire on you and just end up being messy (no not that way out of the gutter people.) I dont know just arguing that side i guess.
OK now that its 1:16 am and i have 9am work ill cut this short and do a sequel tommarow, i hope everyone loved my similes :).
Have a good night